This blog hop came about because of the death of a friend of Lori Anderson and Lori's desire to honor her memory.
I have to admit...this was a tough challenge for me to undertake. We've just been through the holidays; my emotions and memories are scraped raw and now I'm going to try to write about a person who I still miss on a daily basis.
And then to narrow down my inspiration to only one aspect of a complex person and then translate that concept into jewelery...I had my work cut out for me.
The person who inspired this piece is my father. He has been in Heaven for almost two years now and while I'm moving on with the grieving process it's been a tough road to walk. My faith and my family have been crucial in getting me to this point.
My dad was a complex individual and enjoyed keeping people on their toes. He didn't let many people see the gentle and sensitive side of himself...probably because he had been hurt so badly so often throughout his life.
But as I thought about our relationship, I realized that there is one important thing that I inherited from him and that is the ability to recognize black and white (right and wrong) in a world filled with shades of grey.
My dad was a man of uncompromising principles. He and I worked for the same company for many years and I saw the struggles he endured to stay true to his word even as those around him broke theirs. But he was always the go-to person when people had problems because they knew he could be trusted.
I decided to take that idea of "black and white" and use it as the inspiration for my memory piece.
I wanted something dramatic yet simple. I decided to start with a black and white lucite flower and build from there. I added dark grey and white pearls with small crystal AB rounds and bright silver daisy spacers to create the flower. Then I added Tibetan silver bead caps and a matching AB crystal round to finish the look.
I chose to use gunmetal for the chain and used the antique silver clasp as a focal piece just above the drop pendant.
When I was painting on glassware and Christmas ornaments, Dad was my biggest supporter and the person I would rely on to help me with my new designs. It seems fitting that my first new design for 2013 would be a necklace to honor him.
Be sure to travel around and see how people have inspired others on this blog hop! Just click on the blog title (in pink) to visit each blog.
Alicia
Marinache All the
Pretty Things
Andra Marasteanu Handmade by Indra
Marasteanu
Andrea Trank Heaven Lane Creations
April Grinaway Brooklyn Bead Goddess
Andrea Trank Heaven Lane Creations
April Grinaway Brooklyn Bead Goddess
Becky Pancake Becky Pancake Bead
Designs
Beth Emery Stories by Indigo
Heart
Bonnie Coursolle Jasper's Gems
Cassi Paslick Beads: Rolling
Downhill
Catherine King Catherine's
Musings
Cece Cormier The Beading
Yogini
Chandra Leitz Juniper
Goods
Charlie Jacka Clay Space
Christine Stonefield
Sweet Girl Design
Chrizette Bayman Bead Soup
Mix
Cindy Wilson It's My Sea of
Dreams
Crystal Thain Here Bead
Dragons
Cyndi Lavin Beading Arts
Debbie Rasmussen A little of this, a little of
that
Donetta Farrington Simply
Gorgeous
Dyanne Everett-Cantrell Deeliteful Jewelry
Creations
Emma
Todd A Polymer
Penchant
Erin Kenny beadiful
therapy
Erin Prais-Hintz Treasures
Found
Gina Hockett Freestyle
Elements
Gloria Allen Innovative Dreams
Jewelry
Heather Marston CSW
Designs
Inge von Roos Inge's Blog
Jacqueline Marchant Fiddledeedee
Jewelry
Jami Shipp Celebrating
Life!
Jean Yates Snap Out of it Jean,
There's Beading to Do!
Jessica Murray Whimsical
Monkey
Joan Williams lilruby jewelry
Jo-Ann Woolverton It's a Beadiful
Creation
Joanne Browne josjewels1
Jodie Marshall Jodie Marshall Lampwork Beads
Wearable Art
JuLee Wolfe The Polymer
Penguin
Julie Bean Blue Pig Blog
Karen Mitchell Over the Moon
Designs
Kelly Hosford Patterson The Traveling
SideShow
Kim Ballor Vitamin C ... A Daily Does of
Creativity
Kim Dworak CianciBlue
Laren Dee Barton Laren Dee
Designs
Lea Avroch LA Jewelry
Designs
Leanne Loftus First Impression
Design
Linda Florian Lily's of the Valley
Jewelry & Creative Creations
Linda Inhelder Must-Haves
Jewelry
Lori Bowring Michaud Artfully
Ornamental
Lori Poppe Adventures in
Creativity with Lorillijean
LouAnn Elwell Southpass Beads
Mandi Effron Craft-o-licious
Marcia DeCoster MadDesigns
Marcia Dunne The Alternative
Foundry
Marie Covert Creating
Interest
Marjorie Savill Linthwaite bennubirdrising
Marlene Cupo Amazing Designs by
Marlene
Martha Aleo Ornamento
Marti Conrad Marti's Buttons -n-
Beads
Mary Ellen Parker BeeTree by
m.e.
Mary Govaars MLH Jewelry
Designs
Mary Lindell Mary Lindell Artisan
Jewelry
Maureen Connolly Mrs Beadsley's
Workshop
Maybeline Tay The Jewelry
Larder
Melissa Elgin The Addicted
Beader
Melissa Mesara one-eared pig
beads
Menka Gupta Menka's Jewelry
Michaela Pabeschitz la mar de
bonita
Mischelle Fanucchi Micheladas
Musings
Mona Rae Baroody Who Does She Bead She
Is?
Nan Emmett Spirit Rattles -- Spirited
Earth
Nancy Pedersen Something Heartfelt by
Nancy
Pam Farren re-maker
Pam, the Crazier Sister The Crazy Creative Corner
Rebecca Anderson Song Beads
Rebecca Sirevaag Becca's
Place
Robin Kae Reed Artistry
HCBD
Rochelle Brisson a creative
chelle
Sabine Dittrich perlendschungel
Sandi Volpe Sandi Volpe
Sandra McGriff Creative
Chaos
Serena Trent All Things Made Jewelry
Sharyl McMillian-Nelson Sharyl's Jewelry &
Reflections
Sheila Davis Stone
Designs
Shelley Graham Turner Fabric of My
Life
Sherri Stokey Knot Just Macrame
Sherry Baun U nicorns
Jewels
Skylar Bre'z Brising
Beads
Stephanie Haussler Pixybug Designs
Tania Spivey Moobie Grace
Designs
Terri G. Blooming
Ideas
Terry Carter T apping
Flamingo
Terry Matuszyk Pink Chapeau Vintage
Jewelry
Tracy Martin Nutkitten's
Jewelry
Zia Parks Anzi~Panzi's Work
Shoppe
Zoe Marcin Beads, Tea and
Sweets
Great to hear your story of your father and it's a lovely, striking necklace
ReplyDeleteLovely work - I'm sure your Dad would be proud.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely, lovely tribute to your dad.
ReplyDeleteA simple and striking design. And what a lovely tribute to your dad. Thank you for sharing! Enjoy the day! Erin
ReplyDeleteWhat a perfect piece to honor your Dad. He was obviously an extremely special man to be able to keep his integrity in a sea of compromisers. And the fact that you recognize that means that his legacy lives on in you! xoxo Cyndi
ReplyDeleteCindy, my father has been gone for almost 20 years, yet the tears still come when I think of him. Beautiful story and tribute. Gina H.
ReplyDeleteThis was such a wonderful way to honor your Dad.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing.
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Your necklace is just as beautiful as your story.
ReplyDeleteLOve this piece! Right and wrong, black and white. Simple direct and the piece is simply gorgeous! A wonderful way to honor your father! Enjoy the day!
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Terri G.
Your tribute to your dad is beautiful - I'm sure you'll wear your necklace proudly!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful necklace to symbolize your father's sense of honor. Thank you so much for sharing your father with us.
ReplyDeleteA wonderful tribute to your Dad. This is a great concept. I think that your Dad would have been proud of you for this necklace.
ReplyDeleteWow. Beautiful post and thank you for sharing your story with us.
ReplyDeleteYour black and white piece is beautiful.
Peace and Love.
The gift of discernment is a wonderful legacy from your father, and what a lovely tribute you've designed into this piece.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for the loss of your father. Your necklace is a beautiful tribute! Thank you for sharing him with us.
ReplyDeleteGorgeous
ReplyDeleteI loved reading the story of your dad - thank you for sharing. It must have been hard writing the post, and I'm sorry for your loss. The world is poorer for having one less good and principled man in it. Your necklace is a beautiful tribute to his memory. I love how you managed to combine stark simplicity with a delicate femininity.
ReplyDeleteI love how elegant this necklace is - really beautiful. Being a "black and white" person in today's world is quite a legacy to live up to :)
ReplyDeleteBead Soup Mix
Simple yet beautiful x
ReplyDeleteI love the piece you made, simple, elegant and a perfect tribute.
ReplyDeleteA wonderful tribute to your dad. By reading your story, I'm sure that would be a piece he prefers - simple, elegant and without knick-knack!
ReplyDeleteLove the simple and beautiful quality of your piece. I also made a piece for my dad, and found it hard to think of how to approach the piece...
ReplyDeleteI love the necklace. Pure and simple, yet classy and elegant. Thank you for sharing your memories of your wonderful dad.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful necklace!
ReplyDeleteHaving a hard time getting through this amazing blog hop, but will get there. The simplicity of your creation is stunning. Wonderful tribute to your dad.
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